One unfortunate aspect of aging is that living independently can become more difficult. What are some of the warning signs that your mom and/or dad may need assistance?
1. Bruising
Older skin bruises more easily and they may not be telling you that they are experiencing falls,
bumping into things, or have become increasingly unsteady. A medical checkup and a cane or
walker may be in order.
2. Food Crisis
An unexplained weight loss that isn’t the result of a health issue may be an issue with food
accessibility. Check the refrigerator and cabinets. Unkempt food storage areas with ruined food, or
a noticeable lack of food, may flag trouble in self-care. Parents may be unable to clean or shop like
they once did. Getting help with household chores, shopping, or meal preparation may be in order to be sure that healthy, fresh food is available while extending their ability to safely age at home.
3. Unpaid Bills
Your parents may not be able to tend to paperwork and bills as they once did. You may
discover piles of unpaid bills, cutoff notices, or even cancelled services. Ensuring that vital
services are uninterrupted is essential since even a short loss of utilities can have an immediate and
life-threatening result for older individuals. Helping them set up automatic bill payments, assisting
them with bill paying once a month, or hiring a bill-paying service will eliminate this concern.
3. Odor
If the house has an unpleasant odor, it could be the result of rotting food, the inability to clean and
dispose of trash, difficulty with hygiene, or health issues that have gone undiagnosed (like urinary
tract infection). Track down the cause of the odor to determine what steps need to be taken to keep
things safe at home.
3. Home in Dissaray
Everyone’s house is messy from time to time. However, as it becomes more difficult to move
around and do regular household chores, these messes may become bigger. They should never
progress to the point of creating health or safety issues. Consider hiring a cleaning service or an
organization expert before things become too overwhelming. Let your parents know that you don’t want to intrude, but you are genuinely concerned for their health and safety and want to help them find solutions that help them stay in their homes longer and remain safe.
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